Okay, so earlier this day, i came across a video. In the video, that fellow gentleman asked to close eyes and name three people you love in your life the most. So as to prove his and eventually my whole point, let's close eyes for a minute and name any three people we love, like truly love. Take a minute and go on. Done. Okay, so let's say you named three people- the question here is not who you named or how difficult it was to name only three people but the question here is,did you bother to name yourself ? Because i didn't. The idea of naming myself didn't even crossed my mind until that man asked so in the latter part of the video. And it was then that i realized, that maybe for a teeny tiny bit- i don't prioritize myself that much. Maybe I don't love myself enough and seeking the "love" in others is what generally disappoints me. Not that loving someone is wrong or the three names you took would disappoint you always, but the thing is, we normally...
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THE 'BACKWARDS' LAW
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According to Alan Watts, a British writer and speaker, “The desire for more positive is itself a negative experience. And, paradoxically, the acceptance of one’s negative experience is itself a positive experience.” This is a total mind fuck thing. So maybe, I would give you all a minute to unpretzel your brain and read that again. To summarise what I quoted above, ‘Wanting of positive experience is itself a negative experience. Instead we ought to first accept the negative experience.’ Now this is definitely something that would trigger you guys. I agree. It is just like thinking about the negative experience. But you see, there is a minute difference between accepting and thinking about it. In order to gain the ultimate guide on ‘How to be happy’ we must first accept the reason for being sad. We must accept the fact that not everything happens the way we want it to. Life would lose its meaning if it would just resort to being a piece of cake. Because it isn’t. We mu...
IS IT WORTH IT?
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It's been a while since I have actually sat down and typed something, and ofcourse published a blog. Simply, because I have been overthinking a lot and while I was doing that, i put myself to the conclusion that is it even worth it? Worrying so much about something, is that even worth it? Caring so much about people, is that even worth it? loving someone unconditionally, is that or will that be ever going to worth it? Not that I am saying that caring and loving people should be questioned, but what the point is, will all of this ever going to be worth it? No matter how much you do or how much "efforts" you put on, at the end, people would have the audacity to question you. Just because you're not announcing before doing something for someone, doesn't mean you're not doing it. It's not important for everyone to know what someone or something means to you, as far as the person or the thing knows itself. But you see whenever I express my perspective on this t...
FORGIVE AND FORGET
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Okay, so I am going to begin this blog on a very informal note today. Reason being, I am feeling a billion things while I am writing this and maybe I just want to share my thoughts. A few days back, I was feeling a bit low and I thought that it was perfectly normal because it isn't the first time I'm feeling so much. But soon I realized that I'm just not able to think straight and this 'thing' has been bothering me so much. Imagine wasting your entire ocean of thoughts for someone who is as questionable as your thoughts, metaphorically. I mean people these days just go on pretending. They are something else on your face and a complete different personality behind your back. Not only this, even after being two different personalities, they have the audacity to make you feel shitty. And, then when you just get to know about their two-faced personality, they're SORRY!!! Like what? Do you have some chemical imbalance going inside your head or are you ju...
IS YOUR THEN AFFECTING YOUR NOW ?
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Imagine, A glass of water filled up till the brim. Now, you need to fill it with more water. What would you do? Ostensibly, you'd empty it and fill it again. Now, think of this glass as your life and the pre-filled water as your past. A much cliché example. Yet the most apt one. I have often heard people exclaiming, "I had a terrible past, and the reason why i am like this is my past." No dude, NO!! You're like this because you're still stuck on something that has already happened and won't change. The more you're stuck in the past, the more difficult it is to live your present. You need to stop dwelling on something that has already happened and you thinking about it, would not change it. You can't start the new chapter if you keep re-reading the last one. To heal a wound, you ought to stop touching it. Until you release the wounds of past, you are going to bleed. You have to bandage. It may leave a scar behind, but it would be just to rem...
WHY DO EXPECTATIONS HURT?
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What are you expecting from this blog? keeping the guessing game strong- you're indifferently expecting this blog to suggest you ways to either stop expecting from wrong people or how to get rid of the constant disappointments. Right? This expectation of your's is okay. I mean we do expect things whether it be a relationship or even professional diameters. Throughout our day, throughout our lives- we expect! You may often see people saying- expectation hurts. But why does it? Is it because we're expecting too much or is it that we're expecting from wrong ones? Is it that our expectations are too high? Or, is it that 'they' cannot accomplish what we expect from them? What exactly is the reason behind this constant miscalculation? In my opinion, the main reason for having disappointment is either you're expecting way too much or you're just expecting from the wrong one. And, by wrong, i mean the one who is certainly not available enough to wit...
MAKE IT HAPPEN
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As we grow and become mature enough to grasp the true essence of life, we understand that only we're responsible for anything that's happening to us. We can actually work for things and make them happen the way we want it to be. Instead of worrying about it, we can actually work. "If you believe in yourself enough and you now what you want You're gonna make it happen Make it happen And if you get down on your knees at night And pray to the lord He's gonna make it happen Make it happen" These are the lyrics from the song 'Make it Happen' by Mariah Carey, which are just apt for the blog. Just believe in yourself and you're going to make it happen. Trust your instincts and work for self. It may seem arduous at first but, it won't be impossible. It won't be. Above all, do not lose your desire to walk. Everyday, walk yourself into a state of well-being and walk away from every illness. Walk yourself into best thoughts...