FORGIVE AND FORGET

Okay, so I am going to begin this blog on a very informal note today. Reason being, I am feeling a billion things while I am writing this and maybe I just want to share my thoughts. 
Forgive and forget hand drawn lettering proverb Vector Image

 A few days back, I was feeling a bit low and I thought that it was perfectly normal because it isn't the first time I'm feeling so much. 
But soon I realized that I'm just not able to think straight and this 'thing' has been bothering me so much. Imagine wasting your entire ocean of thoughts for someone who is as questionable as your thoughts, metaphorically. 
I mean people these days just go on pretending. They are something else on your face and a complete different personality behind your back. Not only this, even after being two different personalities, they have the audacity to make you feel shitty. And, then when you just get to know about their two-faced personality, they're SORRY!!!
Like what? Do you have some chemical imbalance going inside your head or are you just dumb enough to do that?
But, they just don't stop there, they want you to forgive them. 
Listen, 

 Neither am I Jesus, nor do I have Alzheimer's.

I cannot just forgive and forget something like that. You have 'the' two very different and contradicting personalities, and that my friend, is simply not my problem. Just pull up your pants and have the audacity to speak up on my face. I may have all your answers. 
Now here I may sound rude and someone who has just experienced something like that, okay i may have experienced something like that in my recent past, but that doesn't change the reality. Ain't we all fed from such people, as a matter of fact I AM!!
You see the only solution we could resort to is to ignore them. This part here isn't easy at all. It isn't. But that's the only best option we are left with. 
Just go with the flow, ignore such people and think about other important things in your life. You, yourself is more precious than anyone else. Invest your time in self-improvement. 

 Until then, Happy today-ing. 😃❤️

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